Find the peace of staying inside your circle of influence. The center of your circle of influence is always your own psyche,your soverign realm which you can never abdicate. According to the I Ching you have only one obligation in life---to get your relationship to yourself right. Do that and your relations to sex, time, money,food, body, power, career, relationship, society, etc. will be as good as outer circumstances allow. Omit or neglect any part of that relationship and all those things are accordingly skewed, distorted and diminished.(Zap Oracle card)