Access your emotionally neutral higher thinking and cosmic vision. Ironically, what farseeing vision often reveals are the obvious truths that are right in front of our faces but are nevertheless hard to recognize.
The personal view can trap us in the forever chaos of he said/she said. An impersonal or cosmic view requires fiercely looking into things without emotional entanglement.
Avoid significant decisions and actions while in a state of emotional agitation. Get past the point of view of internal considering where the ego views everything as a blessing or a curse.
Cut through to the core of what is going on. One way to do this with your life is to ask yourself: What will I remember well on my deathbed?