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  • Light and Dark are Interrelated

    Light and Dark are Interrelated

    Your ego may judge the light and dark threads of the tapestry as good or bad, but a non-dualistic view sees them as interrelated. John Toland’s biography of Hitler begins with a quote from a Graham Greene character: “The greatest saints have been men with a more than a normal capacity for evil, and the…

  • Accepting the Hazards of Relationship

    Accepting the Hazards of Relationship

    Often, when we think of the hazards of relationship, we think of the hazards that we perceive coming from others. We often neglect to notice the hazards that we create for others. Relationships can be hazardous in both directions, but they are often well worth the risks. We are the most dangerous known animal on…

  • Parallel Patterning

    Parallel Patterning

    See the patterns of your world. This card draws your attention to the possibility of the outer world paralleling the inner world of psyche in ways that cannot be explained in terms of cause and effect. Jung called such acausal connections “synchronicities.” In the past these parallelisms were often called “portents” or “omens,” and in…

  • Looking into Narcissism

    Looking into Narcissism

    We live in the age of the narcissistic personality type. Even if we are not narcissists ourselves, we are all affected by the narcissism of others. Although I’d been influenced by Ken Wilber and others to think of the Baby Boomers as the most narcissistic generation of all time, recent research indicates that narcissism has…

  • Rebelling from the  Pain Body Matrix

    Rebelling from the Pain Body Matrix

    Each of us has a Pain Body, a self that is addicted to receiving and/or inflicting pain. If we are not conscious of our Pain Body, then it has many opportunities to take us over and pull us into the Pain Body Matrix. When I used to glimpse my Pain Body, I saw a shadowy…

  • Rebelling from the  Pain Body Matrix

    Rebelling from the Pain Body Matrix

    Each of us has a Pain Body, a self that is addicted to receiving and/or inflicting pain. If we are not conscious of our Pain Body, then it has many opportunities to take us over and pull us into the Pain Body Matrix. When I used to glimpse my Pain Body, I saw a shadowy…

  • Defying the Dragons of Doubt

    Defying the Dragons of Doubt

    This is a crucial time to fight the voices of doubt. The most powerful voices of doubt are those that occur within you, and the next most powerful voices of doubt come from people you love. The day before I wrote this card I had many difficult struggles with doubt. Much of the doubt was…

  • Catch the Cosmos Doing Something Right

    Catch the Cosmos Doing Something Right

    “Happiness does not depend on outward things, but on the way we see them.” — Tolstoy They say that a good manager is one who emphasizes catching people doing things right. And yet, in our view of the world we tend to emphasize all the places where we think the cosmos is getting it wrong.…

  • Catch the Cosmos Doing Something Right

    Catch the Cosmos Doing Something Right

    “Happiness does not depend on outward things, but on the way we see them.” — Tolstoy They say that a good manager is one who emphasizes catching people doing things right. And yet, in our view of the world we tend to emphasize all the places where we think the cosmos is getting it wrong.…

  • Looking for that Quick Fix

    Looking for that Quick Fix

    As easy as it is to see when someone else has fallen for the quick fix, the magic pill, it is much harder to catch ourselves while we are under the seductive spell of the quick fix: This might really be Mr. or Ms. Right, the diet that will really work, the answer to financial…